Why am I a Coach?

Hello Tribe!

I'm writing a spontaneous post because...that's kinda my thing! I love being spontaneous because it feels right for me. I recently took a personality quiz that revealed I'm a very right-brained and creative extravert which is true most of the time. The only time I'd say I'm very introverted is when I'm forced to be contained within a box of a structured life around all left-brained brilliant minds who might call me too "woo-woo"; well, then, I'm reserved and quiet while trying to survive. The world needs these structured people - I'm just not one of them.

Having my entire life planned through the best years of my life from 8am to 5pm more than 70% of every week is kind of what I would describe as hell. Seriously, sitting in an office at a desk when the weather is amazing outside and I don't touch nature for weeks because I'm too tired, well for me, that's a recipe for depression for me and probably lots of people like me.

I'm not the person who wants my entire life to be predictable but for the sake of my responsibilities, I thought it was the only option. I am grateful for the amazing people I've worked with and for the opportunities to contribute to a successful team and company. This is not about lack of gratitude or for being harsh about my past, because that is a part of my path. Those jobs, that time, those people, all helped shape me through all of the interactions and it's like how the wind shapes the sand. The ups and the downs are the flowing waters that smooth the rough stones - super accurate analogy! 

I'm talking about the "WHY" behind it all, I'm talking to you, dear tribe member, who is reading this with a yearning in your heart and an ache in your soul for the "other" that is beyond where you are standing now. I'm not talking about the afterlife, I'm talking about the next phase of your life!

So, if you are like me and you are reading this, then this message is meant for you! Don't just accept it as what your life has to be. I'm working toward building what I know I should have been brave enough to do many years ago. Ironically though, I didn't really know what I wanted and whenever I caught a glimmer of what I thought my life could look like, it terrified me because I didn't have the centered confidence I do today.

This is why I want to coach people who resonate with this. I was, like you, feeling like life is a pointless game of pin the tale on the goal. Once you reach a goal, like get your degree, then you reset the game for another goal, but you're playing the same game with a blindfold hoping you get to pin that tale on that ...err donkey.

It used to make me feel insane when people would say I was too sensitive, or need a steady paycheck, or whatever thing they wanted to project on me. Yes, we do need a means to thrive in this world and part of that means is money to trade for our food, transportation, etc. If you have or want a family, whether that's fur babies or humans, you still have that responsibility to think about. Plus of course, you need to take care of you too, don't forget that!!

So, how did I get out of this limited, blind, and depressing doom-loop of a life? It wasn't like just going out to get a new credential could just magically make me ready for big changes. It was a process and a practice on a daily bases of the growth that I help my clients make. You expand from within - sounds a bit hokey right? I get it...but trust...because trusting the process while keeping your vision is key. I also believe that there's purpose to our lives and I just didn't know what that purpose was for me.

Maybe you also don't know what the purpose is...are you living this life, in this time of the world, in that part of the world, to do _________ fill in the blank. If you feel like you are already on the right track but want a deeper, happier experience, I for sure can help you unblock that clog in the way. Or you don't at all resonate with the way your life is, let's work together to see what might be some karmic reasons (I use numerology for this bit) and we can identify those "ah-ha!" moments to help you get our of the doom-loops.

In the past 10 years, I have gone from a deep depression with the wrong life dynamic (past marriage of pain and suffering) to thriving and living where I want and have married my true twin flame. It's such a blessing to go through these processes - eventually, I realized that I don't need to keep living for externally placed goals, but live more fluidly and in alignment with my purpose and my reason for being here. 

Truly your success is my mission - I believe that through a holistic healing processing from within, you can unblock yourself, you can find your path and develop the tools that help you get onto that path and help keep you in the right direction. I will work with you using multiple tools that resonate with you - I employ harmonic resonance with tuning forks, chakra work, meditation, distance and energy healing (obviously not to be taken as a replacement for medical advice), I employ the Tarot for the symbolic reference points and I also can connect with your soul...I can feel things that people's souls are yearning for or wanting to heal from.

So, I truly hope that you'll reach out to me: coach@tealonics.com - I genuinely care and am looking to build my coaching business so that I can help people in this authentic way instead of needing to work for a profit-first company. 

Thanks so much for reading this blog and please connect with me!!